Wild Moment Up In Singapore
Picture this: a sunny morning in Singapore, people strolling through a bustling street, when suddenly a pair of parents goes on a kid‑slap tour right in front of everyone. The dad and mum were practically throwing side‑arm punches at their own daughter—just for fun, of course.
When a Bystander Steps Up
A fellow passerby tried to step in, shouting for the parents to stop, but it felt like the ordeal was a private drama—no objections in sight. The couple just pulled their little girl straight into the street and away, dragging her as if the world had no idea what was happening.
The Social Media Buzz
Fast forward to Facebook—that’s where the story started to spread, thanks to user Jackie Tan. He shared the shiny screenshot and called out the parents for making such a scene. The post struck a nerve, and before long millions were adding their own voices and comments.
Netizens Rally Together
- “Seriously? No way this is how you treat your kid!”
- “This is totally unacceptable.”
- “We’ve seen enough violence; this should stun us!”
Tags and emojis trended, and the viral post cast a spotlight on an issue many had quietly tolerated. The internet joined hands to remind those rulers of parental rights that love, not blows, is the true lesson to impart.
Takeaway: Let’s Keep It Safe
We can all agree that kids deserve a safe, loving environment—no beating and no public spectacles. Parents, remember: your little one’s future isn’t in a chicken‑pox or a slap‑cancer tale. Manners, gentle hands, and lots of love are the real game‑changers.
Parents allegedly beating their child in public
When Mr Tan spotted a distressing scene at a Housing and Development Board (HDB) void deck, he didn’t wait for the police to step in—he captured the moment on camera and shared it online. The photos show a couple in the middle of a heated parenting moment, each trying their hand at discipline.
The “teal shirt” drama
At first glance, the girl in the photos had a bright teal tee—one of those shirts that’s meant to signify “fresh and hopeful.” Yet the bright hue was quickly eclipsed by the more intense colors of… well, a tense situation. The father was shown grabbing the child’s arm—no, not gently, but with a firm grip that would make most of us yelp “Whoa!”, while the mother was seen holding her daughter’s ears, presumably pulling them aside.
Why this photo hit the news
- Public hitting – Parents fraying their composure in front of strangers is a red flag.
- HDB void deck – A communal “kitchen” where life’s every little drama unfolds.
- Online evidence – Mr Tan’s quick action on the phone gave authorities a clear picture.
Mr Tan’s take
After filming the incident, Mr Tan added a short caption: “Every parents have their own ways to teach their children but I can never tolerate parents hitting their kids in public.” In other words, if your cooling-off mantra is “give them a smack on the head in front of the world”, you’re probably not getting any brownie points.
What people are saying
Responses range from booing the parents for their harsh method to applauding Mr Tan for standing up for a child’s safety. The general consensus? Parenting is best taught with love, not action—with a dash of patience and a sprinkle of humor.
All in all…
When a child is involved, it isn’t just about “discipline” – it’s about setting a healthy example for future generations. Mr Tan’s snapshot reminds us that communities thrive when parents harness positivity, not aggression. Keep the playlist of loving lessons handy, everyone—no need for any whacks on the deck!
Stranger tried to stop parents from hitting their daughter
When a Good Samaritan Becomes a Bad Bit
Mr. Tan’s calm caution quickly turned into a headline of its own when he stepped up to stop a family from dragging their little girl away… from the amusement park, of course.
The Scene Unfolds
- Concerned for the child’s safety, Mr. Tan approached the pair and politely asked them to stop.
- Instead of a respectful “no,” the parents shouted back and reminded him that the girl was their daughter.
- Without missing a beat, they swung her away, hurling her in front of Mr. Tan’s eyes.
“It’s All Right,” the Parents Said
“When we ask you to stop, you proudly claim she’s your daughter… yet you hit her and drag her away,” Mr. Tan wrote, his voice tingly with a mix of frustration and disbelief.
Key Takeaway
Back‑to‑back moments of trust turned into a declaration of ignorance. Those who claim to care but actually endanger the most vulnerable deserve a once‑in‑a‑lifetime lesson.
Let’s hope this incident sparks more conversations about safety and respect—before we all get older and the memories start to blur.
Passerby assures own kids he would not do the same to them
When Dad Turns into Dadzilla: A Parenting Lesson
Picture this: a family outing that turns into a mini reality‑show episode. Mr. Tan’s wife and kids were there when a rough crowd hit his daughter. The little ones, eyes wide, whispered to Mom, “Will Papa do this to me next time?” Mr. Tan quickly assured her, promising no repeat.
The Reality Behind the Rumble
We all have rough corners when it comes to disciplining kids, but it’s easy to forget how a harsh approach can scar their minds. Shaming, shouting, or even a smack can do more harm than good.
Top researchers from UCL reveal that children who’ve endured adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) often face tougher life outcomes than those who haven’t.
- Parental depression
- Harsh spanking or forceful discipline
- Violence between parents
- Alcohol misuse at home
Let’s Learn, Not Repeat
Let’s take this incident as a wake‑up call. If we want to protect our kids from public humiliation and violence, the first rule is stop the drama. Family outings should stay family outings, not become an arena for aggression.
Need Help? Here’s How to Call for Backup
If you sense someone is caught up in domestic abuse, you can:
- Report to police or dial 999 if danger looms.
- Contact the nearest Family Service Centre.
- Reach out to support helplines below (they’re all phone‑friendly, so no web links needed):
NAVH: 1800 777 0000
AWARE: 1800 777 5555
Samaritans of Singapore: 1800‑221 4444
Singapore Association for Mental Health: 1800‑283‑7019
Care Corner Counselling Centre (Mandarin): 1800‑353‑5800
This article was first published in TheAsianparent.
