Ryan Lian’s Touch‑Tongue‑Tugging Reunion with His Lost Younger Brother
When you see Ryan Lian on screen—whether he’s bantering in Long Long Time Ago or seasoning the next Ah Boys To Men—you might assume he’s a familiar face. But behind the polished character work lies a story that’s a bit less about footage and more about family drama.
From Forgotten to Found
In 2014, the 36‑year‑old actor crossed paths with his younger brother, a man he hadn’t seen in a whopping 28 years. He managed to keep this reunion hush‑hush for years, mainly to shield his sibling from the sudden spotlight.
Breaking the Silence on September 14
Just yesterday, Ryan and his late‑reunited brother opened up in an interview with Shin Min Daily News (Tuesday, September 14). They described the oddly cinematic way they lit up each other’s lives, from strangers awkwardly exchanging “hello, who are you?” into brothers laughing about childhood mischief.
- How they found each other after decades of silence
- Surprising ways the relationship blossomed
- Lessons on “it’s never too late to say hello”
While Ryan’s career has already been a triple‑A hit, his personal tale reminds us that family lore can be just as gripping—only it’s in real life, not on the silver screen.
Different lives
Meet Two Brothers Who Took Life in Totally Different Directions
Ever wondered what happens when one sibling ends up in a movie set and the other in a livestream seller’s ring? Meet Kevin and Ryan—two brothers whose careers look like a roller‑coaster versus a smooth express train.
Kevin Soh: The “Through–Train” Man
- Born in the House of Fate – Kevin was shipped off to another family right after he popped out of the womb, and his parents got a lucky red packet in return.
- First Stop: Mechanical Engineering – He graduated from Nanyang Technological University with a degree that could build a bridge.
- From Tech to Talk – Kevin swapped gears for chatter, working in publicity for a movie company before finding his stride in the marketing world.
Kevin’s life has been a neat, obstacle‑free ride, like a classic through‑train that keeps chugging along without any surprises. He’s happily married with kids and believes that a little windfall from being “sent away” was pure luck.
Ryan Soh: The “Roller‑Coaster” Story
- Grandmother’s Guardian – Raised mostly by his maternal grandmother, Ryan grew up on stories and sturdy home‑grown values.
- Master of Martial Arts – A wushu instructor at a young age, he trained hard in the art that tells you how to keep your cool when life throws punches.
- Acting Adventures – After 16 years hustling behind the scenes, Ryan burst into the spotlight with a string of films, gaining a name in the entertainment industry.
Like a thrilling roller‑coaster, Ryan’s journey has been packed with twists—especially lately. The pandemic scrubbed many acting gigs away, so he turned to livestream selling to keep the wheels turning. He’s even had to bite his tongue after breaking his right hand in July, juggling increases in medical bills and the need for a steady income.
When it comes to risk, Ryan’s life story feels as wild as a four‑track track, while Kevin’s path is as straightforward as a green‑lit commuter line. Despite the differences, the brothers share one thing: their resilience and a quirky belief that having taken the “away” route might have actually set them up for good fortune.
“I’m lucky to have been sent away!” Ryan proudly declares. And with Kevin’s unstoppable marketing hustle and Ryan’s fearless livestreaming bravado, the duo proves that no matter the path, you can always find a way to turn your story into a blockbuster.
Reunited all because of a TV variety show
Rough Reunion, Mild Drama, and Memorable Moments
Picture this: a fancy hotel, two strangers who are actually blood relatives, and a whole lot of banter that lasts “for a very long time.” That’s the headline of this family saga.
Kevin’s 18‑Year‑Old Revelation
Kevin’s epiphany came when he was 18, walking home after school. He was just peeking out of the gate when a young man Ryan appeared, holding his breath for a moment.
His mum was just returning home and heard him say, “No, don’t find him.” This triggered a sense of mystery and suspicion, so Kevin dug deeper and discovered the shocking truth: he was adopted.
He’s even told his adoptive mother that he wasn’t ready to talk for two weeks. During that period, he kept his distance because he didn’t want to be a thorn in their side.
Ryan: “When we met, I was just excited to see if he was a gangster or a smart kid. Turns out I was just right—so I promised his mom that I would leave them alone.”
Waiting In the Distant Past
- Kevin ends up staying away for two weeks.
- Ryan never got a chance to prove himself as a studious buddy until years later.
The ‘Bump in the Road’: Smart at Work
Fast‑forward a few years. Kevin gets invited to a cool Mediacorp variety talk‑show, Smart at Work. He sits across from the platform’s star, comedian‑actor Jaspers Lai.
Jaspers spotlights Kevin’s uncanny resemblance to a big brother he never know about:
Jaspers: “These two are practically a twin! Are they related or just stylishly similar?”
Curiosity piqued, Kevin knocked on Ryan’s Facebook door. The knock did not get an answer initially, but that wasn’t Ryan’s fault—he was simply hard at work and didn’t keep his inbox tidy.
Kevin: “Before we met, I was happy yet scared. Even though we’re blood, we still had no idea what the other guy was like.”
Unexpected Internet Talk
- He dreamed of a face‑to‑face reunion before the screen.
- Ryan finally stumbled upon the message and was both stunned and thrilled.
Ryan: “I just wanted a reminder that my whole life’s kidnapped person has finally tasted his brother. I had a laugh out loud from the moment I read it!”
Final Takeaway
The two brothers reunited over a glass of wine and a hilarious photo, reminding us that family surprises can still wow us even after growing up. The reunion proved that even a YouTube‑backed chat can turn into a “Shocked and thrilled” moment that will be remembered forever.
Letting bygones be bygones
From Grudge to Gratitude: Kevin & Ryan’s Adoption Story
Kevin’s Journey
For a long time Kevin was a bit of a rebel—he kept his past locked inside and carried a silent grudge over his birth parents who gave him away and his grandmother who approved the adoption.
Now that his grandma is living in a nursing home battling dementia, the conversation has turned into a chance to put the past behind him. Kevin told Ryan he’s more than happy to visit the “old lady” and reconnect.
Ryan’s Emotional Moment
Ryan, on the other hand, is practically a truck‑full of love for his grandma. When he heard about Kevin’s kindness, he burst into tears of joy.
- Empathy: Ryan’s bond with his grandmother is stronger than words can describe.
- Support: He’s there to cope with the emotional roller coaster of dementia.
- Hope: The two brothers are finding a new common ground.
Kevin’s Message for Adopted Kids
Kevin says the most important lesson from his experience is that adoptive parents can be even more amazing than birth parents. He urges anyone adopted to look at the bright side of life and not get stuck in the “what if” hallway.
Ryan’s Call to Parents
Ryan’s outlook is all about responsibility. “If you want to recognize them when they’re older, it’ll be too late and you’ll regret it,” he shared. He wants future parents to step up now so they don’t have to carry this regret later.
Take a page from Kevin and Ryan’s book: love, gratitude, and a dash of humor can transform even the toughest pasts into bright futures.
Ryan ‘warm-hearted’ but lacks social skills
Kevin & Ryan: Wedding, Work, and the Whole “Brotherly” Saga
Picture this: Kevin and Ryan both Chinese brothers, but with very different personalities. When Kevin tied the knot, Ryan jumped right in as the wedding’s charismatic emcee, turning the reception into a high‑energy affair.
What the Young Man Said About the Wedding
- Kevin tossed a playful jab: “When Ryan finally marries that Malaysian girlfriend, I’ll gladly livestream the whole thing.”
- He added a chuckle about Ryan’s appearance, saying Ryan’s “Ah Beng” vibes mask a surprisingly warm heart.
- Kevin praised Ryan’s work ethic, describing him as someone who values gratitude and is utterly diligent.
Old Bro vs. New Bro – The Social Scene
Kevin’s older brother, a bit on the quiet side, has struggled to break into the entertainment world. “He’s not the party animal I’d expect from a top star,” Kevin admits.
Meanwhile, Ryan had this to say about his younger sibling:
- He’s a capable, hardworking guy.
- What used to be stubbornness and replaying past mistakes? Gone, replaced by a big shift after becoming a dad.
Letting Go of the Past
In a sincere confession, Kevin shares that he’s moved on from family hardships:
- “I’ve put my past behind me, no grudges left behind.”
- He respects what his birth parents chose and doesn’t plan to hunt them down.
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With stars and brothers, the family’s journey keeps getting more colorful—one wedding at a time.
