A Night Under The Stars Reveals Dad‑Son Chemistry
On the newest episode of meWATCH‘s A Night Under The Stars, veteran actor and host Darren Lim had a sneaky moment of self‑realisation about his 15‑year‑old son Jair — and it came with a decent amount of chuckles.
Darren’s Fears, And the Unexpected Reveal
Darren had always pictured Jair as the “home‑body gamer” who’d feel a shiver at the thought of a cycling trip or a hike. He’d thought maybe the pandemic had locked him into a virtual cocoon, forcing him into a “stay‑in‑the‑basement” routine.
During the shoot, however, the 49‑year‑old’s worries hit the fan. He recalled a conversation with his wife Evelyn that made him rethink the whole “I-saw-my‑kid-as-a-sleepy‑saver” mindset:
“Evelyn told me something that really shocked me,” Darren said. “The first two years of Jair’s adolescence overlapped with the beginning of COVID‑19. He was a complete homebody because he couldn’t go anywhere!”
“Maybe I was expecting too much of him. I thought he’d be into nature and outdoor activities.”
And the plot twist? Counselling their little one doesn’t always require a superhero cape.
The Family Lineup
- Darren Lim – Host, 49, bringing the out‑of‑comfort social experiment to life.
- Evelyn Tan – Darren’s wife, 45, seasoned actress and family confidante.
- Jairus – 15, the “gaming king” who’s now being drawn out of the pixel playground.
- Way – 13, the more outgoing brother who’s already braving the outdoors.
- Elliot – 8, the tiny champ with a fearless spirit.
- Kristen – 17, the artistic daughter who’s spicing up the storyline.
When Effort Meets Reality
Evelyn’s POV was hilariously revealing:
“Jairus loves gaming, but if you tell him that the family’s heading out on an adventure, he’ll do his best to enjoy the activities.”
And that’s the secret sauce: a little push and a lot of encouragement. No grand plans or luxurious trips necessary. Just a simple scramble to the outdoors, a sprinkle of conversation, and pulls of love.
Expectations, Creativity, and the Realities of Childhood
Beyond the outdoor expectation, Darren keeps his creative fire burning. He runs wild on his “unconventional thinking” and wants his kids to experiment with their own ideas.
He admits that every kid is unique. He needs to coax Jairus quietly upward, brick by brick, because “everyone has different personalities – he tends to be a bit of a homebody.”
What to Take Away
It’s a fine reminder that even the most “digital‑native” kid can step outside if it’s the right moment, the right words, and a supportive parent. Darren’s honest self‑reflection and his family’s playful effort create a heartfelt moment that reminds us boys are more generous than we think – they just need a gentle nudge.
