Encouraging Motherhood at 60 – The Remarkable Story of Liu Lingling
Born to the Beat of Getai and the Beat of Life
Liu Lingling, a seasoned actress who still lights up the getai stage, has faced a roller‑coaster of heartbeats – from IVF attempts to a silent triumph with her son, Caleb. She’s proof that age is just a number when it comes to love and perseverance.
The Long Road to a Baby
- Eight rounds of in‑vitro fertilisation, each hoping for that spark.
- A single miscarriage at six weeks – a painful “heart‑stop” moment in the seventh lunar month.
- Two decades of pregnancy research to keep the little secret hidden from everyone, even her own mum.
Laughing Through the Pain
When the first attempt failed, Lingling was told her face looked “as white as a sheet”. She thought it was just a light period or a guilty bite of food, yet she still hit the stage, cracking jokes to keep the crowd laughing.
“I had to keep dancing.”
With a sneaky smile, she performed, keeping a punchline in her pocket. This “coach in a nutshell” was her own way of brushing off heartbreak.
Unlikely Allies and Hidden Destinies
Her daring decision to try again was sparked by director Royston Tan, who said, “You’ve always dreamed of this; go for it!” Together they dancinged in famous movies like 881 and 12 Lotus.
“Baby? My foot!” – the comedic reveal
When fellow artist Wang Lei popped the question, Lingling classic‑style kept the secret: “Pregnant? Nope, just haemorrhoids.” That line earned her a legendary “how‑you‑keep‑calm” reputation.
Double Life: Film, Getai, and Car Naps
Even while expecting, she woke at 5 am to shoot movies and finished shooting at 5 pm or later. A quick nap in the car, then a 15‑minute pilgrimage to the next getai event. All that while the slim “baby‑ode” remained hidden.
Careful Protection, Ultimate Display
She kept Caleb out of the public eye for five years, fearing shadows from her husband’s debts. The truth about his paternity only hit the mainstream light in 2018. When 2022 rolled around, the whole family appeared together on TV, each ready to smile in front of the camera.
Mom’s Vibe – “Let him grow healthy”
“I needed to shield him,” Lingling says, “and once the world calm, let him step into the limelight.” And step it did, with a proud mother cheering on the very boys of the game show Dad, I’ve Got Your Back.
What’s Next? A Future of Love and Laughter
The legacy of Liu Lingling reminds us that the road to motherhood can be twisty, but a healthy dose of humor, determination and a little secrecy help make it all worth it.
