Teenage Turmoil or Just Growing Up? How a Veteran Actress & Her Son Survived a 5‑Year Rift
Parenting is a maze and most of us end up feeling lost. Xiang Yun’s latest drama, Your World in Mine, puts this puzzle on the big screen: her character’s son walks out after a heated disagreement and doesn’t return for half a decade.
The Real‑Life Parallel
In reality, the 60‑year‑old star and her 31‑year‑old son, actor Chen Xi, now share a warm “hi‑to‑the‑world”. That wasn’t always the case, says Xiang Yun in a candid interview with AsiaOne.
The Struggle of a Teenage Boy Missed
- Busy filming life. Xiang Yun juggled daily shoots yet set aside time during breaks to bring Chen Xi home from school and spend a few precious minutes together.
- Cold shoulders. The 14‑year‑old, however, ignored her. The actress felt hurt, bewildered, and even shed a few tears soaking in the car.
- “How did he put me so far away?” As her heart sank, she wondered why someone she considered a treasure would treat her so dismissively.
Giving Space, Finding Return
After a moment of contemplation, Xiang Yun decided to create room for her son:
- “I gave him—space, not forcing him to say ‘I love you’.” She let him grow on his own and, gradually, he pieced everything together and came back home.
Chen Xi’s return coincided with his National Service: he routinely checked in, greeted her in the hallway, and shared a hug or two while asking how she was faring.
Parenting Advice From A Real‑Life Drama
Having weathered the storm, Xiang Yun now offers heart‑felt counsel to parents navigating teenage years.
- “Don’t rush.” Puberty is wild. Give kids time; don’t push for immediate answers.
- “It’s all about evolution.” Boys are finding their place, discovering friendships, and flipping through emotions. It’s normal they’re a bit reserved.
- “Reassure yourself.” If the lessons you taught them early were solid, there’s no need to panic.
- “Board the roller coaster.” Kids change, and that’s fine—allow them to mature.
Spotlight on the Drama
Your World in Mine streams weekdays at 9 pm on Channel 8, and viewers can catch it anytime on meWATCH at no cost. The show also showcases talents like Huang Biren, Yao Wenlong, Hong Ling and Richie Koh.
So, whether you’re a seasoned parent or a fresh‑to‑the‑game newbie, remember that shouting and tears are one chapter—getting through them together is the story worth telling.
