When a Mother Turns Into a Life‑Saver
Imagine you’re surfing the waves of life, and suddenly a gigantic storm hits. You’re already halfway across the sea, just about to get back home when the earthquake rocks the island. That’s exactly what Sharon Au endured when the 2011 Japan quake rattled her while she was studying abroad.
The Low‑point
- Sharon felt overwhelmed and helpless, thinking, “It’s pointless to keep going.”
- She confided those heavy thoughts to her mother, but didn’t bring a dagger; it was more like, “I just don’t want to live.”
- Her mom kept it simple: “I just want you to be okay. If you’re not, I’ll pray for you. The Lord will do better than I can.”
That calm, “no melodrama” answer was a lifeline. “If she’d gone all hysterical, it might have driven me to do something‑silly,” Sharon says, laughing at the memory of her mother’s steady hand.
Getting Up and Going Back to Action
Sharon’s reaction? “Sharon Au, wake the f*up! You could have left your Mum hanging that way.”
She turned that pep‑talk into a fire‑starter: “I didn’t waste time wallowing at home— I dove straight into work.” Busy work became her shield against empty thoughts.
When the Mother Broke the Ice
At first the mom’s gentle push fizzled: she asked the whole congregation to pray for Sharon, and Sharon’s ego ignited. She felt “damaged” and vented. But even after an outburst, the mom stayed steady:
- “She offered to help me talk to a counsellor.”
- That led to counseling sessions at her home and medicine prescribed by a hospital.
Medication: A Temporary Chill, Not the Final Fix
Sharon explains: “Medication isn’t a cure-all; it’s more like a temporary suppressant.”
“If you haven’t cleared your past trauma, you can’t just hop onto medication; you need professional help at every stage.”
She’s sharing this not only to lighten the weight but to remind everyone that a mother’s steady presence can become the strongest support, no matter how loud or quiet the situation.
SINGAPORE HELPLINES
Finding Your Calm Corner in Singapore
When the world feels a bit too loud, you’re not alone. If you need someone to talk to, or if you’re just feeling that desperate to get help, these local hotlines are ready to listen. Reach out—your voice matters.
Trusted Support Lines You Can Call
- Samaritans of Singapore – 1800-221-4444
- Singapore Association for Mental Health – 1800-283-7019
- Care Corner Counselling Centre (Mandarin) – 1800-353-5800
- Institute of Mental Health’s Helpline – 6389-2222
- Silver Ribbon – 6386-1928
Each resource offers supportive listening, coping tips, or professional referrals—so whether you’re battling isolation or just need a friendly ear, they’re there. Pick the number that feels most comfortable and dial away.
Why One Call Can Change Everything
It’s easier than many think to get overwhelmed. A quick call might simply bring a clearer perspective and the reassurance of somebody who understands. Guidance isn’t to be shelved behind other tasks; it’s often the safest step to a calmer life.
Remember, You’re Not Alone.
No matter how it’s phrased—“just a quick chat” or “real help”–the line is open 24/7. Give your mind the space it deserves and reach out.
Also Read
Curious about how day‑to‑day life can slip apart? Check out the story of Sharon Au, who spent 6 months on a friend’s sofa, jobless in Paris. It’s a reminder that we’re all navigating bizarre turns—and we all deserve a supportive line.
