Actor Zen Opens Up About Filling the Dad‑Love Void
From a twine of tough childhood memories to a hopeful future for his kids, actor Zen shared a heartfelt story on the latest episode of A Night Under The Stars. The 43‑year‑old, best known for his villain roles, admits he never quite experienced the affectionate dad he wished for.
Growing Up Without a Fatherly Touch
- Zen recalls how his late father “scolded and beat him quite often,” leaving him with a feeling of missing genuine paternal love.
- He told host Darren Lim that seeing other families made him feel a sense of emptiness when his father left the household.
Love That Grows With Two Little Ones
Zen married his long‑time girlfriend Geline See in 2011, and they now have two children: seven‑year‑old Aryssa and six‑year‑old Eytan. Travelling on a camping trip with Darren, Zen confessed he wants to step in as the missing dad figure for his boys.
“I don’t want my kids only to feel motherly love,” he said. “I’ll fill that gap like I did for myself.”
Love as a Two‑Way Street
Zen believes the affection he gives will be reciprocated; the bond will be mutual, never one‑sided. When chatting with Darren, the seasoned father of four, Zen laughed about his own low confidence score—he rated himself a solid 4 out of 10 as a dad.
Learning From the Mistakes
They compared how well they answered Eytan’s questions. While Darren seemed to know almost everything, Zen struggled with some answers. But he stressed that it doesn’t matter how many wrong moves happen; every misstep is a lesson.
“You’ve either got it or you don’t. It’s all about the mistakes you learn from,” he told Darren.
A Playful Approach: More Discipline for the Boys
Zen said young boys can be playful and may need stricter guidance. He recounted a scolding episode when Eytan rode his scooter near the road to a park.
“I shouted and slapped him with my hand,” he said, emphasizing the danger. “I just want to stop any accidents from happening.”
Darren’s Take on Zen’s Protective Nature
Darren murmured, “Zen is where I was ten years back—when kids are still young and on the brink of common sense. I admire how much he cares about their safety.”
A Message to the Future
Zen recorded a note for Eytan:
“My biggest wish for you is a lifetime of love for your mother. With love, you can conquer anything.”
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